The internet has been buzzing in recent times over the breakup between former Big Brother Naija (BBNaija) housemate, Segun Olusemo, popularly known as Sheggz, and fellow reality TV star, Bella Okagbue.
According to Sheggz, the relationship ended in January 2026.
However, Bella recently took to social media to share her side of the story about their failed relationship, contrary to narratives circulating online.
She wrote; “For the past few days, I have watched people tell my story for me. I stayed silent because I believe some things deserved to remain private, but my silence should never be mistaken for guilt.”
“I loved genuinely. I defended the relationship because I believed in it at the time, and I chose to give some I loved a second chance because I believed people can grow and change. That was my choice, and I own it.”
“But believing in someone’s capacity to change does not obligate you to wait forever for that change.”
“The person everyone experiences publicly isn’t always the person you experience privately.”
“On marriage and the ring, let me be clear: wanting marriage with someone you love is not desperation. knowing. Knowing when not to marry them is discernment. Sometimes, it takes more courage to walk away than to stay.”
“A ring doesn’t fix what made a relationship impossible.”
“A hundred promises Not one fulfilled. At some point, you stop listening to promises and start paying attention to patterns.”
“There are versions of events circulating that do not reflect my experience, just as there are parts of my experience I have chosen not to discuss publicly yet. Those are mine to tell, when appropriate.”
“I gave love a chance. I gave change a chance. I gave loyalty in abundance.”
“But even loyalty has an expiry date when trust, respect and peace can no longer co-exist with it.”
“I don’t regret being the woman who chose to try again. respect the woman I am today enough to know when trying again is no longer the answer.”
“So today, I chose myself, I chose differently, regardless of what comes with it.”